So I was going to a gig and would be staying the night in a hotel because it was quite far away to go for the gig. This also meant I would be near a member of this site so we arranged to meet up. Although I'm not homosexual and neither was the other guy we agreed to meet up as both of us really wanted to do some bondage. I agreed as long as he would be the one tying me and he was happy with this. We agreed to meet at a nearby train station.
Finally the day arrives where I will be getting tied up and as expected I'm rather horny but at the same time extremely nervous but I've been waiting a while for this and the guy (let's call him Matt) that in meeting with has been talking to me for months. I arrive at the train station and see him from here it was about a 20 minute walk to the hotel. Matt and I talked about things we had on the site and it was like we were old friends talking about video games, movies, TV shows and the like and we got on absolutely great. Matt was probably about 6 foot 3 just slightly taller than me, black hair and slightly older if I recall he was late 20's. We then arrived at the hotel and the time came.
We switched on the TV and Top Gear was on (not relevant but I miss the old format of Top Gear
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The plan was I would be slowly tied up more and more he would cuff my hands, tie my legs, hogtie, then blindfold and gag. He would then cut off all my cloths apart from underwear and change my socks. I would then be tied to a chair. So it begins with my hands being cuffed behind my back and I'm really uneasy at this and even he struggled a bit after this as we both didn't know what to say I then asked him to tie my legs so he stood me up and strapped my legs together. He then smirked and before I could ask why he pushed me down onto the bed in a jokingly manner nothing sinister. I'd been dreaming of this for years and for some reason I wasn't enjoying it. I had a major hard on so sezually it was exciting me but apart from that it just wasn't working for me. We both then stared at Top Gear on the TV and I then made the decision I was gonna tell him to untie me. I waited for a bit as I feared he would just gag me and refuse but I summoned up the courage and said "I don't like this you're going to have to untie me".
Matt to his credit was a Saint he untied me as quick as he could and although he said he was fine I could tell he was devastated and I was too. We both talked about it afterwards and I told him that it just personally felt wrong that I was being tied up by a guy and I was aroused by it, he also admitted he was horny as well. We then bid our farewells.
Looking back on it now I realize that I was horny due to the bondage and not because of Matt if that makes sense. I really wish It could have worked out as he was a great guy and I don't really class myself as purely straight nowadays so it wouldn't bother me at all. I haven't done any bondage meetings since because I haven't found anyone. I tried to get back into contact with him after the meeting to see if he'd be willing to meet but he wasn't. We stopped speaking as well which was a shame as we had got on really well and we'd been talking for at least 6 months before this. I think he was called tied boy or tied guy and lived in Edinburgh so if he's on this site as well please let me know
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Right that was a lot longer that I thought but I hope it gave you all a bit of perspective on what it could go like as it's not always going to go well. I'm very lucky Matt was an alright dude and agreed to untie me immediately as I was in a very vulnerable position. I would love to meet him again or chat to people about this experience especially anyone that lives in Scotland. I also acknowledge that I should of met him prior to the meeting for safety but we loved too far away to do this but to everyone else I insist you do meet them before letting them tie you up as things could go very badly. Thanks for reading.