What really does it mean to you?
What really does it mean to you?
Does TUG/Bondage mean:
A) Fun (esp for under 18)
B) Fetish
C) A way to relax and improve mental health
D) Just curious not really into it
A) Fun (esp for under 18)
B) Fetish
C) A way to relax and improve mental health
D) Just curious not really into it
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A very good question, and one that requires more choices! For me it would be both A (Fun) and C (A way to relax and ...). But it is also so much more. For example, both my wife and I prefer it when I'm tied-up wearing tights and spandex leotards, so there is some fetish elements at play as well. Also, TUG/Bondage has always been an integral part of who I am at the core. Since the earliest times I can remember, I've wanted to be tied-up. If i go more than a couple of months without being just tied-up or tied-down to some furniture, for at least 30 minutes, I become very anxious and stress, grumpy even, to the point that I become less effective at everything I do (work, play, etc.).
While I mostly do self-bondage, I'm also fortunate enough to have a lovely and caring wife who understands me and helps me whenever I get stressed-out (there is nothing more enjoyable for me than to have her apply the final ties that make my bondage inescapable by myself--30 minutes as my wife's captive, even if that's all that is done, with no additional kinks/fetishes, is enough for me to be over-joyed for days). Once secured, I can relax and just let go. That does not mean that sometimes there isn't the occasional fun, be it platonic games or more adult flavoured. But for the most part, I can just relax into the TUG/bondage, and let my mind relax and melt my fears, anxieties, and other stressors away.
So to me, it means everything! It a a core aspect of who I am. Without me being tied-up from time to time, I'd just be a constant bundle of nerves!
While I mostly do self-bondage, I'm also fortunate enough to have a lovely and caring wife who understands me and helps me whenever I get stressed-out (there is nothing more enjoyable for me than to have her apply the final ties that make my bondage inescapable by myself--30 minutes as my wife's captive, even if that's all that is done, with no additional kinks/fetishes, is enough for me to be over-joyed for days). Once secured, I can relax and just let go. That does not mean that sometimes there isn't the occasional fun, be it platonic games or more adult flavoured. But for the most part, I can just relax into the TUG/bondage, and let my mind relax and melt my fears, anxieties, and other stressors away.
So to me, it means everything! It a a core aspect of who I am. Without me being tied-up from time to time, I'd just be a constant bundle of nerves!
B - an arousing urge that builds to a peak 3 or 4 weeks after the most recent time.
To me A, B and C apply.
A, is really how this all started for me and still how I enjoy it today. Nothing sexual, I just like tying up others!
B, because there's a few items I may incorporate into bondage play beyond just tying someone up, there's definitely some fetish involved, even if it's mostly for my subs sake.
C, there's something calming just watching a sub relax while tied up. Even in my rare moments of switching, I've even found it very relaxing!
A, is really how this all started for me and still how I enjoy it today. Nothing sexual, I just like tying up others!
B, because there's a few items I may incorporate into bondage play beyond just tying someone up, there's definitely some fetish involved, even if it's mostly for my subs sake.
C, there's something calming just watching a sub relax while tied up. Even in my rare moments of switching, I've even found it very relaxing!
Mix of A and B but mostly A
A and C for me.
Halfway starting to explore B, but a lot of it seems to turn me off.
Halfway starting to explore B, but a lot of it seems to turn me off.
Definitely A with a little B
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B and possibly C, haven't "studied it enough"
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It's both B and C. Bondage is a great way for me to relax but there's certainly a fetish/sexual aspect to it for me that's difficult to ignore.
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B and C for sure. I definitely get turned on being in bondage, but I also find it very relaxing and it's a great way to recharge my batteries. It's like an escape from everyday life for me.
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B.
This is a really good question to have been raised, as it makes users of this Board actually think about why we are!
This is a really good question to have been raised, as it makes users of this Board actually think about why we are!
Is she out there, she who ties you up and then you stay tied up?
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A and B, which seems fairly common here. I enjoy being tied up, and to a lesser extent tying other people up. I enjoy the physical sensation, and the... dynamics? interactions? when I do it with the right person. That definitely can be sexual for me, but it also absolutely doesn't have to be.
Perhaps a shade of C as well, but for me that requires specific conditions I very rarely get to fulfil (i.e. somebody who is both willing and trusted to tie me up and leave me tied for a while).
Perhaps a shade of C as well, but for me that requires specific conditions I very rarely get to fulfil (i.e. somebody who is both willing and trusted to tie me up and leave me tied for a while).
I would say all 3, although I am well over 18. Another choice for me would be the challenge of it. Trying to figure out how to escape, although I just like the feeling of being tied up and unable to escape.
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A basically. I don't view it in the same way as sex, I can't really