Stories of Tie Up Games

Of the three choices I provided I know I do a bit of each, so another way to think of the question is: what is your primary goal when tied up?

I voted 'relax and enjoy your bonds' because that is what I now do mostly, during the few opportunities I get to be tied-up. However, I also enjoy struggling for a bit, for both my lovely wife's (she loves to see me squirm!) and my own enjoyment. I definitely do not 'attempt' to escape, as I don't want too, and the enjoyment of being bound by my lovely captor always comes to an end eventually, sadly but necessarily, real-life and all.

I think it really depends on what myself and my partner are feeling at a given moment. Sometimes they want to see me struggle like mad to get out (and sometimes they like to stop it mid-process) and other times we just cuddle up with me in ropes. I will note however that it can be a lot more difficult to escape and sometimes its just not worth it yknow? I do enjoy getting my gag out though thats always a fun task.

All in all I voted relax because I think its what happens the majority of the time.

Voted for relax and enjoy your bonds. Bondage is a great way for me to relax and de-stress. Since I do self bondage, struggling is pointless since I can get out anytime. I also like to take my time and enjoy my predictament, as it takes a while to get dressed up, do my makeup, and of course applying my bonds.

Mix of struggling and relaxing. I like to struggle a bit, and often the person tying wants to see it, but I can only do it for so long. I'm never really genuinely trying to escape, unless we're at the end and I'm being untied anyway.

I like a challenge so if I can escape I do, however I'm always thrilled when I've proven to myself that there is no escape, then I can alternate between struggling and enjoying my situation.

I usually record myself struggling and trying to escape

I usually go through phases when I'm tied up. Normally I have nipple clamps on and a sock secured over my nose as 'encouragement' for me to try escape. So I'll spend a little while struggling and moaning before I give in and wallow in the discomfort.

Relax and enjoy your bonds while I watch TV.

I usually struggle for enjoyment, but sometimes I do love to really try to escape (and preferably fail ).

Struggle for enjoyment and hope the person that tied me up sees it and decides to tie me up even more.

Struggle for the enjoyment but also to try and escape. Hopefully the ties are tight enough to keep me bound despite my struggling.

I usually struggle to make sure I'm really tied up then lie back and enjoy being tied up. That is if I'm left alone, which I love, sometimes I'm being teased and played with when I'm tied up.

I would say struggle but I've never been tied up by someone else before and I've never been brave enough to put myself in a strong enough self-tie to warrent struggling.

Jennyjay wrote: ↑1 year ago I usually struggle to make sure I'm really tied up then lie back and enjoy being tied up. That is if I'm left alone, which I love, sometimes I'm being teased and played with when I'm tied up.

I’ve sat back and relaxed when tied up before too. It’s great when tie someone else up too

All of the above but I do genuinely try to escape: if my captor has tied me up too loosely or if they've left a loophole, I might not wriggle free immediately (I sometimes delay a little, so as not to hurt their feelings) but I will get out of their ropes.

If I test my bonds thoroughly and genuinely can't slip them or untie them, then I'm able to relax into the situation. Not 100% - I still have intermittent bouts of struggle-for-the-sake-of-it or fidgeting at the ropes - but I'll eventually accept that I'm helpless.

If I'm also gagged and especially if I'm blindfolded, I can drift off into a sort of half-doze (sometimes I actually do doze off) that's actually a really creative mind-set. Fantasy scenarios occur to me... once, a complete story came to me, fully-formed, and when I was released, I went straight to the laptop and typed it all out in a rush.

Longer scenes - especially overnight ones - are a sort of extension of that. There's something both frustrating and weirdly magical about getting to the point where I'm sick of being tied up and genuinely want out but have no choice but to stay put.

Struggle to escape. But that gets tiring after a while, so you have to just enjoy it.

Its a mix of both for me, i do sit there and enjoy my position and my bondage but trying to escape my binds also gives a sense of excitement and arousal as well

Struggeling and watching my wife having sex with another guy They love to see and hear me struggle

I love to relax and enjoy my bonds. If my hero wants to take his sweet time in saving me, I'm totally fine with that!

Haven't been restrained in ages, but I do like to struggle, I don't want to escape, just want to feel how helpless I am and how much my captor has me in their power as they watch me squirm

Struggle at first try to escape and hope everything is secure enough I can’t escape. Then I can relax and know I really am really bound. It’s not bondage if I can get out.