A bondage Visit (M/F)
Posted: Mon Jun 10, 2019 9:34 pm
by Bobbert » Wed Aug 14, 2013 8:01 pm
Hello, my name is Robert (my friends and family usually call me Bob though). This is my first time posting here and I have enjoyed reading so many of your stories I thought it would be only fair to post one of my own. So here we go!
First off about me. I am 5'7, average build, dark brown hair and hazel green eyes and have been interested in BDSM since I can remember. Most people wouldn't guess by my generally laid back demeanor but I am in fact very dominate when it comes to anything sexual. I have been looking for a girl who is as interested in BDSM as I am, but as so many of you know finding a partner or even play partner can be very difficult when doing things the old fashioned way.
I decided I would make some online profiles at Collarme and Fetlife and see if that would help. This is a story of one of the experiences I had with a girl I met through those sites about 6 months ago. For the sake of this story I will call her "Jennifer" as I would not feel right using her real first name. We had been talking for about 3-4 weeks graduating from messages to Skype video chat. Finally the time felt right and we set up a date to meet up on a Friday night to hang out and some optional kinky fun if things went well.
I drove down to meet her at her place because it was not suppose to be occupied by her roommates until about midnight and would leave us plenty of time (my roommates were not planning on leaving that night as usual so that was really our only option). The plan was to meet up, have dinner and be back at her place no later than 9 and see how the vibe was. She lived in an apartment complex so she wanted to meet me outside the business a little down the street as it would be very hard to find her room among what were dozens of separate buildings with probably well over 50 rooms in each.
I saw her standing out front of the agreed upon location and picked her up in my car. We exchanged pleasantries and got past that little getting to know you in real life as opposed to online vibe pretty fast. Jennifer was about 5'1 light brown hair, more brown than green eyes and had a little extra but was a very nice girl and had a cuteness about her. No one meeting her who was looking for it would have any trouble figuring out she had submissive tendencies. She came off as very shy but eager and exhilarated for tonight.
However only after a minute into the conversation I got thrown a curve ball that I was not expecting at all. It turned out there was a last minute change and her roommates where going to be home a little after 9 instead of midnight. We had a little less than 2 and 1/2 hours before that happened. So I asked her what she wanted to do. Did she want to go to dinner and then go back to her place to hang out for a bit (no point doing any bondage if there was only going to be 30-40 minutes) or did she want to go hang out at her place (obviously the bondage was implied). She said she was willing to do whatever I felt like doing. In case you don't know that is usually girl code for I want you to make a move. So I decided we would go back to her place to hang out.
That is not to say I didn't have reservations about doing things in this order. I have learned the hard way through trail and error that pushing things like this too far too fast could make someone feel very anxious in a not good way. I decided a while ago that it was much better to lead up to it a bit slow and make sure the comfort level was there before putting someone in the position of having trust you with their body and safety completely. Driving back and then walking to her apartment in the building i kept a close eye on her. She gave me a quick tour of her apartment and the last stop was her bedroom. She invited me inside and I took a quick look around. A lot of anime posters and other nerdy stuff which actually I really enjoyed seeing. I told her before meeting not clean her room before I came over so I could see her in her natural habitat as it were. It was very messing with various clothes and other items on the floor. None of that bothered me at all and I liked getting the little inside look into her life.
So now the moment of truth came and I took a seat on the bed and invited/kindly told her to sit down on it next to me. I could clearly see she was very nervous (I found out after at dinner that I would be tying her up for the first time in her life) but she still seemed very willing and excited. I talked softly and kindly to her telling her that there was no pressure to do anything and promised nothing would happen if she didn't want it to or decided she wanted to stop. I asked her one more time of she still wanted to proceed with assurance that I would be fine if she wanted to back out. Happily for me she shocked her head no and said she wanted to continue. At this point I ordered her to stand up straight in front of me and gave a good looking over of what was now mine for tonight.
Hello, my name is Robert (my friends and family usually call me Bob though). This is my first time posting here and I have enjoyed reading so many of your stories I thought it would be only fair to post one of my own. So here we go!
First off about me. I am 5'7, average build, dark brown hair and hazel green eyes and have been interested in BDSM since I can remember. Most people wouldn't guess by my generally laid back demeanor but I am in fact very dominate when it comes to anything sexual. I have been looking for a girl who is as interested in BDSM as I am, but as so many of you know finding a partner or even play partner can be very difficult when doing things the old fashioned way.
I decided I would make some online profiles at Collarme and Fetlife and see if that would help. This is a story of one of the experiences I had with a girl I met through those sites about 6 months ago. For the sake of this story I will call her "Jennifer" as I would not feel right using her real first name. We had been talking for about 3-4 weeks graduating from messages to Skype video chat. Finally the time felt right and we set up a date to meet up on a Friday night to hang out and some optional kinky fun if things went well.
I drove down to meet her at her place because it was not suppose to be occupied by her roommates until about midnight and would leave us plenty of time (my roommates were not planning on leaving that night as usual so that was really our only option). The plan was to meet up, have dinner and be back at her place no later than 9 and see how the vibe was. She lived in an apartment complex so she wanted to meet me outside the business a little down the street as it would be very hard to find her room among what were dozens of separate buildings with probably well over 50 rooms in each.
I saw her standing out front of the agreed upon location and picked her up in my car. We exchanged pleasantries and got past that little getting to know you in real life as opposed to online vibe pretty fast. Jennifer was about 5'1 light brown hair, more brown than green eyes and had a little extra but was a very nice girl and had a cuteness about her. No one meeting her who was looking for it would have any trouble figuring out she had submissive tendencies. She came off as very shy but eager and exhilarated for tonight.
However only after a minute into the conversation I got thrown a curve ball that I was not expecting at all. It turned out there was a last minute change and her roommates where going to be home a little after 9 instead of midnight. We had a little less than 2 and 1/2 hours before that happened. So I asked her what she wanted to do. Did she want to go to dinner and then go back to her place to hang out for a bit (no point doing any bondage if there was only going to be 30-40 minutes) or did she want to go hang out at her place (obviously the bondage was implied). She said she was willing to do whatever I felt like doing. In case you don't know that is usually girl code for I want you to make a move. So I decided we would go back to her place to hang out.
That is not to say I didn't have reservations about doing things in this order. I have learned the hard way through trail and error that pushing things like this too far too fast could make someone feel very anxious in a not good way. I decided a while ago that it was much better to lead up to it a bit slow and make sure the comfort level was there before putting someone in the position of having trust you with their body and safety completely. Driving back and then walking to her apartment in the building i kept a close eye on her. She gave me a quick tour of her apartment and the last stop was her bedroom. She invited me inside and I took a quick look around. A lot of anime posters and other nerdy stuff which actually I really enjoyed seeing. I told her before meeting not clean her room before I came over so I could see her in her natural habitat as it were. It was very messing with various clothes and other items on the floor. None of that bothered me at all and I liked getting the little inside look into her life.
So now the moment of truth came and I took a seat on the bed and invited/kindly told her to sit down on it next to me. I could clearly see she was very nervous (I found out after at dinner that I would be tying her up for the first time in her life) but she still seemed very willing and excited. I talked softly and kindly to her telling her that there was no pressure to do anything and promised nothing would happen if she didn't want it to or decided she wanted to stop. I asked her one more time of she still wanted to proceed with assurance that I would be fine if she wanted to back out. Happily for me she shocked her head no and said she wanted to continue. At this point I ordered her to stand up straight in front of me and gave a good looking over of what was now mine for tonight.