A newbie with questions & quirks
Posted: Wed Sep 16, 2020 2:57 pm
Heyho, I'm a 19 year old German and enjoy others being tied up!
I stumbled upon this forum through sexy profile images of users that showed up in images-search and stayed for the content which I find pleasing without being disgusting or objectifying like so much of the internet when going in the direction of bondage.
I have started writing a few stories weeks ago, and though many of them never reach proper finalization I will probably post something here and there in the future.
That brings me to my first question: I have recently tried writing a story that contains tentacles that hold someone hostage and torture them, I am guessing that doesn't really fit here?
> Stories involving adults and minors in any tie-up situation MUST have no sexual undertones.
So if the story involves only minors sexual undertones are fine?
A personal thing I always wanted to inquire about: When I read bondage stories or view bondage media of any kind, I get sexually aroused. I can barely prevent that, which also often limits how long I can write on a story and stay level-headed. What are your experiences with that and how do you enjoy bondage if it's not sexual? I know about the relaxation component, I am missing personal experience to judge that for myself, but there is also the art of bondage, which I (unfortunately?) am not able to enjoy without sexual arousal.
I stumbled upon this forum through sexy profile images of users that showed up in images-search and stayed for the content which I find pleasing without being disgusting or objectifying like so much of the internet when going in the direction of bondage.
I have started writing a few stories weeks ago, and though many of them never reach proper finalization I will probably post something here and there in the future.
That brings me to my first question: I have recently tried writing a story that contains tentacles that hold someone hostage and torture them, I am guessing that doesn't really fit here?
> Stories involving adults and minors in any tie-up situation MUST have no sexual undertones.
So if the story involves only minors sexual undertones are fine?
A personal thing I always wanted to inquire about: When I read bondage stories or view bondage media of any kind, I get sexually aroused. I can barely prevent that, which also often limits how long I can write on a story and stay level-headed. What are your experiences with that and how do you enjoy bondage if it's not sexual? I know about the relaxation component, I am missing personal experience to judge that for myself, but there is also the art of bondage, which I (unfortunately?) am not able to enjoy without sexual arousal.