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Re: Surrender Fetish

Posted: Wed Aug 19, 2020 2:27 pm
by ILoveHandsUp
I am really not into bondage, although if a girl wants to be tied up, I would be more than happy to do it for her, as long as it is light. But still, I keep coming to those bondage related sites because this is the place where my surrender fetish appears the most. I first discovered bondage (well, I knew that bondage was a thing, but I never thought it could really interest me) when I saw Natasha Flade in "The Nanny", and then "The Tutor". After searching for more, I've discovered that ladies put their hands up quite often in bondage stories and videos. And I realised that this was indeed a fetish, when I saw the tag "Surrender Fetish" on videos on Borderland Bound.
Would be interesting to know what people here think about Natasha Flade and about Borderland Bound.

Hands Up!

Posted: Sat Oct 03, 2020 5:44 am
by Killerbee619
Hello fellas,

I hope you have a nice day.

I would like to know if there's any person here who had an interest in women getting surrender by putting her hands up
Whether if it was an arrest scene, robbery or being captured in general

Re: Surrender Fetish

Posted: Sat Oct 03, 2020 5:58 am
by bondagefreak
[mention]Killerbee619[/mention] Hello and welcome.

Your question doesn't belong in Tugs Stories for Everyone, so I moved it here, in Tugs Talk.
When you're on the Board Index page, each forum section has a descriptive line to tell you where to post what.
Please take some time to familiarise yourself with the board before posting.

Re: Hands Up!

Posted: Tue Oct 06, 2020 10:35 pm
by ILoveHandsUp
Killerbee619 wrote: 3 years ago Hello fellas,

I hope you have a nice day.

I would like to know if there's any person here who had an interest in women getting surrender by putting her hands up
Whether if it was an arrest scene, robbery or being captured in general
Hi. As you can see by this thread, there are such people here, and I am glad there are more of us. Although I have to say I feel kind of bad for using this tie-up forum for this purpose, but hey, I guess tie-up games are the closest there is to our fetish.

Re: Surrender Fetish

Posted: Thu Dec 31, 2020 3:48 pm
by caplund
I posted in a different story about how I acquired many pics of girls with heir hands up...I have other techniques if anyone is interested...

Re: Surrender Fetish

Posted: Sat Jan 02, 2021 8:53 pm
by Gymnogyps
I've been into this for a while, but only recently started to discover that I'm not the only one.

Re: Surrender Fetish

Posted: Wed Feb 03, 2021 2:07 am
by ILoveHandsUp
Gymnogyps wrote: 3 years ago I've been into this for a while, but only recently started to discover that I'm not the only one.
Yeah, everyone who has this fetish thought at first they were the only ones to have it since it so rare and so not established as a fetish. Maybe because it is just too innocent or simple to be considered a fetish, unlike bondage or other more extreme (and weird) stuff.
I also think that more women have this fetish than they know about it, you just need to develop it.

Re: Surrender Fetish

Posted: Wed Feb 03, 2021 2:08 am
by ILoveHandsUp
caplund wrote: 3 years ago I posted in a different story about how I acquired many pics of girls with heir hands up...I have other techniques if anyone is interested...
What other techniques? The one you have described sounds almost illegal.

Re: Surrender Fetish

Posted: Fri Mar 05, 2021 12:16 pm
by Shepard
Equivalent for me is when the sub, who might actually be a real alpha and think they’re a big deal (makes it even better), resigns to turn around and cross their wrists behind their back. Whether it’s duct tape or rope that’s coming in. Perfect expression of “okay. I’m done. Do what you want to me, so I lose all control and agency.”

Re: Surrender Fetish

Posted: Wed Mar 10, 2021 1:09 am
by ILoveHandsUp
Shepard wrote: 3 years ago Equivalent for me is when the sub, who might actually be a real alpha and think they’re a big deal (makes it even better), resigns to turn around and cross their wrists behind their back. Whether it’s duct tape or rope that’s coming in. Perfect expression of “okay. I’m done. Do what you want to me, so I lose all control and agency.”
Agreed, only I need the hands up, and then behind the back.

Re: Surrender Fetish

Posted: Mon May 24, 2021 3:58 pm
by Silkenvixen
Oh that's something I love to do! I've fantasized many times about being taken at gunpoint, and the first thing I do is raise my hands.

Re: Surrender Fetish

Posted: Mon May 24, 2021 4:24 pm
by ILoveHandsUp
Silkenvixen wrote: 2 years ago Oh that's something I love to do! I've fantasized many times about being taken at gunpoint, and the first thing I do is raise my hands.
"Hands up" is the sexiest pose for me.

Re: Surrender Fetish

Posted: Mon May 24, 2021 4:58 pm
by Silkenvixen
ILoveHandsUp wrote: 2 years ago
Silkenvixen wrote: 2 years ago Oh that's something I love to do! I've fantasized many times about being taken at gunpoint, and the first thing I do is raise my hands.
"Hands up" is the sexiest pose for me.
Me too, next to having them pulled behind me and tied together :)

Re: Surrender Fetish

Posted: Thu Mar 03, 2022 2:55 pm
by ILoveHandsUp
If you have a discord account, and would like to maybe get more into the surrender fetish, there is a channel, and you are welcome to join:
https://discord.gg/azaaVsUmg3

Re: Surrender Fetish

Posted: Tue Mar 29, 2022 6:19 pm
by tiedjay
This is one of the bestpart of the bondage experience! Always loved the moment of realisation and resignation on captives faces and it really makes a story/tv scene for me

Re: Surrender Fetish

Posted: Mon Apr 04, 2022 11:10 pm
by ILoveHandsUp
tiedjay wrote: 2 years ago This is one of the bestpart of the bondage experience! Always loved the moment of realisation and resignation on captives faces and it really makes a story/tv scene for me
If I'm not mistaken, the couple on your avatar put their hands up and surrendered before being tied up and gagged. If I understand correctly where this scene is from.

Re: Surrender Fetish

Posted: Wed Apr 06, 2022 8:17 am
by tiedjay
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If I'm not mistaken, the couple on your avatar put their hands up and surrendered before being tied up and gagged. If I understand correctly where this scene is from.
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Yep they did, the resignation on their face and anticipation really adds to the scene

Re: Surrender Fetish

Posted: Thu Apr 07, 2022 10:21 am
by Treville
Yes! This is very hot. To me it is mostly about anticipation, knowing that the hero/heroine has lost and will be tied up. I especially love when the captured person has to walk a little bit, hands up and the gun pointed at them to the place where he/she will be bound and gagged.

Re: Surrender Fetish

Posted: Mon Apr 11, 2022 11:35 pm
by ILoveHandsUp
Treville wrote: 2 years ago Yes! This is very hot. To me it is mostly about anticipation, knowing that the hero/heroine has lost and will be tied up. I especially love when the captured person has to walk a little bit, hands up and the gun pointed at them to the place where he/she will be bound and gagged.
Oh yes, this is really hot! And I understand you are a fellow "handsupper"? This is how I call subs and switches who love putting their hands up in surrender. I guess you are by this post of yours: "The sexy burglar pointing a gun at me was obviously surprised that I was home. But she looked even more surprised when I calmly raised my hands and told her where to find all my ropes." I would suggest checking out our Discord channel (https://discord.gg/azaaVsUmg3), but note that it is not dedicated to the tie up fetish (but there are some tie up enthusiasts there).

Re: Surrender Fetish

Posted: Tue Apr 12, 2022 7:16 pm
by Treville
ILoveHandsUp wrote: 2 years ago
Treville wrote: 2 years ago Yes! This is very hot. To me it is mostly about anticipation, knowing that the hero/heroine has lost and will be tied up. I especially love when the captured person has to walk a little bit, hands up and the gun pointed at them to the place where he/she will be bound and gagged.
Oh yes, this is really hot! And I understand you are a fellow "handsupper"? This is how I call subs and switches who love putting their hands up in surrender. I guess you are by this post of yours: "The sexy burglar pointing a gun at me was obviously surprised that I was home. But she looked even more surprised when I calmly raised my hands and told her where to find all my ropes." I would suggest checking out our Discord channel (https://discord.gg/azaaVsUmg3), but note that it is not dedicated to the tie up fetish (but there are some tie up enthusiasts there).
I would say that I´m primarily like the damsel/dude in distress-scenario (and identifies with the person getting captured). The "hands up" is kind of a start for the tying and other things that will happen to the victim. And that can in itself be very exciting.

Re: Surrender Fetish

Posted: Tue Apr 12, 2022 7:28 pm
by ILoveHandsUp
Treville wrote: 2 years ago I would say that I´m primarily like the damsel/dude in distress-scenario (and identifies with the person getting captured). The "hands up" is kind of a start for the tying and other things that will happen to the victim. And that can in itself be very exciting.
While not being into tie ups, I don't mind it if it is light, and the girl wants to tie me up, especially if there is another girl being tied. But I will need to be told to put my hands up and kept like this for a while. I guess that maybe for you, it could also extend the anticipation, as you are being teased with the ropes while standing with your hands up in surrender to being tied up and gagged.

Re: Surrender Fetish

Posted: Tue Apr 12, 2022 8:02 pm
by Treville
ILoveHandsUp wrote: 2 years ago I guess that maybe for you, it could also extend the anticipation, as you are being teased with the ropes while standing with your hands up in surrender to being tied up and gagged.
Yes, the teasing could definitely add to the excitement!

Re: Surrender Fetish

Posted: Thu Mar 16, 2023 9:36 pm
by ILoveHandsUp
I think the tie up fantasy can be summed up with the four "ups":
1. Button up
2. Hold up
3. Hands up
4. Tie up

Re: Surrender Fetish

Posted: Mon Mar 20, 2023 10:07 pm
by Captive-Monica98
While not a big part of my bondage fantasies, it still creeps in here and there. I can see the appeal of putting my hands up as a form of surrender. Also adds a bit of realism too.

Re: Surrender Fetish

Posted: Tue Mar 21, 2023 1:01 am
by ILoveHandsUp
Captive-Monica98 wrote: 1 year ago While not a big part of my bondage fantasies, it still creeps in here and there. I can see the appeal of putting my hands up as a form of surrender. Also adds a bit of realism too.
Have you ever put your hands up in a game?
Also, you have a really nice avatar. I imagine the girl on it put her hands up before getting herself tied up and gagged.