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Just a thought 🤔

Posted: Tue Jun 27, 2023 8:17 pm
by some_wanderer
Are there members here that has a tie up story but cannot be posted here because of the rules?

Doesn't have to be too adult in nature.

Just a thought.

Re: Just a thought 🤔

Posted: Tue Jun 27, 2023 8:40 pm
by Xtc
Beware folks, I might be in a bad mood.

Re: Just a thought 🤔

Posted: Tue Jun 27, 2023 9:53 pm
by TimChimp
I'll risk triggering xtc's rage and say that if someone indeed has such a story, said story would be more in place in a therapy session than on this forum.

For real, I don't think the rules are keeping us from reading interesting stories.

Re: Just a thought 🤔

Posted: Tue Jun 27, 2023 10:34 pm
by Xtc
Thanks for the support, [mention]TimChimp[/mention]

Re: Just a thought 🤔

Posted: Tue Jun 27, 2023 10:56 pm
by bondagefreak
TimChimp wrote: 11 months ago If someone indeed has such a story, said story would be more in place in a therapy session than on this forum.
Considering the sensibleness and commonsensical rules in place here, you are indeed correct.

Re: Just a thought 🤔

Posted: Wed Jun 28, 2023 12:49 am
by AlexUSA3
The answer is yes. And woe on the calloused, dead heart that has the audacity to purposefully inquire about life-altering. A thousand woes on the beast who depicts such things in fiction on this here site and has the victims act like nothing bad happened.

Re: Just a thought 🤔

Posted: Wed Jun 28, 2023 8:14 pm
by some_wanderer
AlexUSA3 wrote: 11 months ago The answer is yes. And woe on the calloused, dead heart that has the audacity to purposefully inquire about life-altering. A thousand woes on the beast who depicts such things in fiction on this here site and has the victims act like nothing bad happened.
This is only the best answer.

Re: Just a thought 🤔

Posted: Wed Jun 28, 2023 8:15 pm
by some_wanderer
TimChimp wrote: 11 months ago I'll risk triggering xtc's rage and say that if someone indeed has such a story, said story would be more in place in a therapy session than on this forum.

For real, I don't think the rules are keeping us from reading interesting stories.
Therapy session? You made it sound like they have mental problems.

Re: Just a thought 🤔

Posted: Wed Jun 28, 2023 10:33 pm
by tiedinbluetights
I was going to ignore this thread [mention]some_wanderer[/mention], but since you claim to be from the "Far East", allow me to kindly point out that in most of the western world these days, there are no more 'sanitariums' or other such places that would stigmatize people who need therapy (of any kind). In fact, in most western countries, people have access to psychologists and therapists as readily as they have access to a GP (a medical doctor, general practitioner). Family doctors in fact regularly encourage their patients to also consult psychologists for a variety of reasons. It is not a negative thing. One would consult a therapist to work out any number of personal issues from everyday issues (like how to deal with nosy individuals at work or at play) to the very difficult and delicate (trauma management, anger management, ...).

In other words, saying someone needs therapy does not mean the derogatory or socially stigmatizing "mental problems" that you seem to think. Therapy sessions are as common, if not more so these days, as a vist to your local medical clinic--in the 'West'.

Re: Just a thought 🤔

Posted: Wed Jun 28, 2023 11:43 pm
by some_wanderer
Yeah, we also have that from where I live [mention]tiedinbluetights[/mention] . The therapy sessions or an appointment with the psychiatrist.

Maybe I just made this post to have a chat with those kinds of members, the ones with stories but cannot be posted for reasons. 🤔

Re: Just a thought 🤔

Posted: Fri Jun 30, 2023 1:26 pm
by Detective-Gag
Inviting a conversation based around the topic of “things that are not allowed” seems like it would be intentionally inviting conflict; and would ultimately be a waste of time, since such topics cannot…and should not…be discussed on a platform that specifically denies them.

And pushing the limits of what is acceptable, per the rules.

If I was invited into a person’s home, and they had a rule about “not smoking”; I would not, say, begun a discussion with other guests about the merits of smoking in a place where it’s banned. That would be in poor taste.

Re: Just a thought 🤔

Posted: Fri Jun 30, 2023 1:51 pm
by Xtc
I tend to agree.