Ceasar73 responded with the following (partial quote):
I agree and it is the most difficult part of the story to write, as how does one feel after being restrained for 7 days? I never been restrained for that long myself and figuring out the state of mind for both captor and captive is an interesting challenge. It made me really think about the mental process that is part of bondage. Somebody once said, bondage is not bondage until you want out, which in a sense is true and getting to that point is actually more difficult than most people think I find. Yes, after being tied up for a while you want out, but do you really want out or are you just bored with the situation? What if you can't get out, like Kyleigh in the story?
When I am tied up through selfbondage, tied to a chair, gagged, blindfolded, ear plugged, I can really relax, but after a while, sometimes 10 minutes, sometimes an hour, I have enough and I can undo the leather cuffs and I can untie all the ropes. I have sat in the same chair, tied the same way, but locked into handcuffs, taking my ability away for release and I have sat for 4 hours on the same spot. After 4 hours (I think the longest has been 5 hours) I did not mind getting released, but on the other hand I wanted to stay tied longer as I was disappointed it was over.
Being pushed to that point where bondage becomes real bondage and I would fight to get out, not just try to get out, but really fight to get out, scream as loud as I can and beg to the person who is releasing you and promise everything for him/her to release you, because I really do not want to sit tied on that chair anymore, has not happened to me yet.
I would love to find out where that point is, but I have no idea how long that would take.
Thoughts? Have you ever been to that point, either as captor, where your captive really wanted out, or as captive, where you would have done anything to get out? Any other thoughts related to the above?