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by Fesselfan
5 years ago
Forum: TUG Talk
Topic: Chair ties?
Replies: 1
Views: 3813

Re: Chair ties?

Yes
by Fesselfan
5 years ago
Forum: TUG Talk
Topic: Public bondage
Replies: 6
Views: 9658

Re: Public bondage

About the juristical aspecs...as often, it heavily depends about the country you are in. Having said that, I have over the years done several bondage or bondage-related things in more or less public..IMHO, you need to take care that no one is really offended about it or forced to watch it. Things I ...
by Fesselfan
5 years ago
Forum: TUG Talk
Topic: Meets, Flakes, No-Shows, etc... What's been your experience?
Replies: 12
Views: 13588

Re: Meets, Flakes, No-Shows, etc... What's been your experience?

My experiences...I have been in bondage now for 15 years or so, and never had great difficulties in finding someone to play with. However- I prefer to find my victims in real life, not (directly) in the net. So, BDSM munches and so on that's what works for me. And if a contact happens on the net- th...
by Fesselfan
5 years ago
Forum: TUG Talk
Topic: Setting the tug scene
Replies: 1
Views: 3913

Re: Setting the tug scene

Absence of distracting input....sounds, light, neighbours :D (unless said input is part of the scene).
Often, some music (trance, for example...or certain classic music) can really set the scene-

Cheers

FF
by Fesselfan
5 years ago
Forum: TUG Talk
Topic: Frustrations with self in the scene
Replies: 8
Views: 8910

Re: Frustrations with self in the scene

Well...we are all humans, after all, no matter if you consider yourself part of the BDSM scene or not. And all humans are different. From my experience, in finding a passive bondage partner, two things are very important: 1) Be open about it. If you are not, well, your opposite can't read minds...so...
by Fesselfan
5 years ago
Forum: TUG Talk
Topic: Torturing your captives
Replies: 25
Views: 23769

Re: Torturing your captives

It can be great fun to toy around with sensorary deprivation.
I.e., blindfolding the victim and stimulating her other senses.

You'd be surprised, for example, how a victim may react to just some drops of cold water...if she isn't expecting it and she has no idea of what is happening ;)

Cheers

FF
by Fesselfan
5 years ago
Forum: True Stories for Adults
Topic: Melissa’s creative bondage BJ (M/F)
Replies: 10
Views: 22540

Re: Melissa’s creative bondage BJ (M/F)

contemplates the wisdom of having his victims still tied up during such activities :D

Cheers

FF
by Fesselfan
5 years ago
Forum: TUG Talk
Topic: Turn on phrases
Replies: 141
Views: 116783

Re: Turn on phrases

I still remember something from my long gone past...had tied the damsel up, gagged her properly (was her first time). After a while removed her gag and checked for her well being...she replied "everything is fine. May I have my gag back in my mouth, master?" :-)

Cheers

FF
by Fesselfan
5 years ago
Forum: TUG Talk
Topic: Hands or feet?
Replies: 10
Views: 11930

Re: Hands or feet?

Usually hands, but may vary according to scenario. I.e., if the aim is to apply ultra-tight rope bondage, I usually go for the legs first. Reason: if you do the arms first, chances are they might go numb even before you finish the rest of the bondage (and, for example, take some pics). Legs are much...
by Fesselfan
5 years ago
Forum: TUG Talk
Topic: TUG Safety, Rules, and Ethics
Replies: 22
Views: 21797

Re: TUG Safety, Rules, and Ethics

Reminds me about my bondage principles which I wrote a while ago... In general, though, you (in my eyes) make too many assumptions already for someone who claims to research things... i.e. consentual- you claim it has to be consentual. In my eyes, not neccessarily. There can be a metaconsens, though...
by Fesselfan
5 years ago
Forum: TUG Talk
Topic: Long term bondage?
Replies: 6
Views: 8344

Re: Long term bondage?

Well, speaking from a captors perspective of things ;) I love to keep my victims bound for a while. However, after a certain time period the effort to keep the person restrained increases a lot. And no, this doesn't neccessarily mean the restraints itself...for example, sooner or later we all have t...
by Fesselfan
5 years ago
Forum: TUG Talk
Topic: Long term bondage?
Replies: 6
Views: 8344

Re: Long term bondage?

long term bondage can mean a lot...about which timeframe do you think?
by Fesselfan
5 years ago
Forum: TUG Talk
Topic: How would you guys feel about me selling my collection?
Replies: 20
Views: 15535

Re: How would you guys feel about me selling my collection?

My two advices are... 1) check the laws in the country you are from. It doesn't neccessarily matter where the site is located. You don't want to pay a fine...or even go to jail...for this. Just an example- in some countries, posting pics from tied-up minors, especially for money, is a safe way for s...
by Fesselfan
5 years ago
Forum: TUG Photos
Topic: Fesselfans ropework (M/F)
Replies: 10
Views: 12717

Re: Fesselfans ropework (M/F)

Thanks :) Just showing what I love to do.

Some more:

Hotel room bondage again
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by Fesselfan
5 years ago
Forum: TUG Talk
Topic: What absolutely ruins a bondage video for you?
Replies: 98
Views: 82987

Re: What absolutely ruins a bondage video for you?

So many things already said which annoy me too, like shabby rigging...

What ticks me off, too, is when the maker of a vid obviously has a big fetish (i.E. feet, glasses...or whatever) that I don't share...yet most parts of the video are about showing off said fetish.
by Fesselfan
5 years ago
Forum: TUG Talk
Topic: Organizing Your Digital Media Bondage Collection
Replies: 6
Views: 8686

Re: Organizing Your Digital Media Bondage Collection

I story my stuff on an external drive...plus (encrypted) into two web storages, just in case. Some neat tools for indexing and identifying doublettes might come in handy if you have a lot of stuff from the net (for me, 90% of my stored stuff is my own work or that of personal friends, so I am not su...
by Fesselfan
5 years ago
Forum: TUG Photos
Topic: Fesselfans ropework (M/F)
Replies: 10
Views: 12717

Re: Fesselfans ropework (M/F)

Some more for you all...

Hogtied with corssed ankles
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Bound to the ceiling
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Cheers

FF
by Fesselfan
5 years ago
Forum: TUG Talk
Topic: Are you a gag snob?
Replies: 89
Views: 70752

Re: Are you a gag snob?

I definitly like to gag my victims.
And, as with everything in bondage, it needs to be effective and secure...no thin cloth piethes between the lips which "magically" silence the victim.

Cheers

FF
by Fesselfan
5 years ago
Forum: TUG Talk
Topic: Germany Members
Replies: 18
Views: 27039

Re: Germany Members

Raises a hand...also German here :)
by Fesselfan
5 years ago
Forum: TUG Talk
Topic: DIY Ballgag
Replies: 3
Views: 6256

Re: DIY Ballgag

@chris excellent solution if you require quick silencing of someone and haven't brought fitting things along! :) Thanks
by Fesselfan
5 years ago
Forum: TUG Talk
Topic: One item's purpose different than how it was used?
Replies: 18
Views: 16192

Re: One item's purpose different than how it was used?

@Fesselfan First of all, 100% agree, hardware and even pet stores are gold mines for restraints. Second, oh wow is the disguise for that frame a great idea, I'm definitely gonna use that! Finally, love the ropework in your display picture :) The limit is only your imagination...creativity...and you...
by Fesselfan
5 years ago
Forum: TUG Talk
Topic: One item's purpose different than how it was used?
Replies: 18
Views: 16192

Re: One item's purpose different than how it was used?

The hardware/household store beats any sex store by ages! And not only the obvious stuff...like ropes and tape. Bicycle air tubes and cargo belts make great improvised restraints If you think big: My selfmade bondage frame...with hammock disguise :D Completely out of "harmless" stuff https...
by Fesselfan
5 years ago
Forum: TUG Photos
Topic: Fesselfans ropework (M/F)
Replies: 10
Views: 12717

Re: Fesselfans ropework (M/F)

Thanks!Maybe I'll post some more at a later point...

Cheers

FF
by Fesselfan
5 years ago
Forum: TUG Talk
Topic: DIY Ballgag
Replies: 3
Views: 6256

DIY Ballgag

Hey folks, I think I had posted this somewhere on the old forums, but could not recover it. So, I wrote it up again. This is a simple yet effective way to build yourself a nice ballgag...using simple materials which are avaiable in "innocent" stores. You will need: 1) The ball 2) A strap 3...
by Fesselfan
5 years ago
Forum: TUG Talk
Topic: Tugs foot preference
Replies: 23
Views: 23739

Re: Tugs foot preference

Hmm I am not that much of a foot person...but usually I prefer my victims to either be barefoot (or stockings) or some sexy shoes like high-heels, boots or such. Socks would be a definite no-go for me, though.

Cheers

FF