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by TheOldPirate
6 hours ago
Forum: TUG Talk
Topic: How experienced?
Replies: 4
Views: 78

How experienced?

Have you tied someone consensually, or been tied consensually? Or more?

Is this something you fantasize about, hope to engage in some day, or a never-to-be-fulfilled fantasy?
by TheOldPirate
6 hours ago
Forum: TUG Talk
Topic: Bucket List
Replies: 7
Views: 510

Re: Bucket List

I don't get tied up, but my Grace does, often. Here's what we've done; 1) Watch TV while bound and gagged. (multiple times every week) 2) Eaten a meal while bound with or without your hands. (I've fed her more times than I can count) 3) Slept all night bound and gagged. (not all night, but she's spe...
by TheOldPirate
6 hours ago
Forum: TUG Talk
Topic: Who in your life are you interested in tying up?
Replies: 5
Views: 137

Re: Who in your life are you interested in tying up?

There's a gal who lives in my home who I'm always interested in tying up. And hey, whoa, I actually tie her up all the time! https://images-wixmp-ed30a86b8c4ca887773594c2.wixmp.com/f/b39e7f51-132b-4527-b678-cf6e114e186f/dhb9fqe-8207ffbc-2ca4-4b4b-b5ad-9954beb7e95e.jpg/v1/fill/w_869,h_700,q_75,strp/w...
by TheOldPirate
6 hours ago
Forum: TUG Photos
Topic: More secure straitjacket?
Replies: 2
Views: 67

More secure straitjacket?

I recently came across a tutorial which explained how to make a straitjacket more secure. This "cross-wrists" arm method may look less secure, but Grace assures me that it's much more secure, and that she hates it. I am thinking her right hand needs to go under her left arm. Stay tuned. ht...
by TheOldPirate
1 day ago
Forum: TUG Photos
Topic: Stretching/exercising while tied up (M/F)
Replies: 4
Views: 514

Re: Stretching/exercising while tied up (M/F)

Dpsiic wrote: 2 days ago @TheOldPirate she still looks hot. You are very lucky mate.
Y'know, given how she almost literally fell into my lap, I may have to agree with you!
by TheOldPirate
2 days ago
Forum: TUG Photos
Topic: Stretching/exercising while tied up (M/F)
Replies: 4
Views: 514

Re: Stretching/exercising while tied up (M/F)

Yatta9999 wrote: 3 days ago Wait, that's your girlfriend or wife?
Yes, although I hesitate to use the term "girl" since she's 61 (I'm 58).
by TheOldPirate
3 days ago
Forum: TUG Photos
Topic: Stretching/exercising while tied up (M/F)
Replies: 4
Views: 514

Stretching/exercising while tied up (M/F)

https://images-wixmp-ed30a86b8c4ca887773594c2.wixmp.com/f/b39e7f51-132b-4527-b678-cf6e114e186f/dgesdxe-f2a71c93-33ed-42be-b0c3-2408599c86eb.jpg/v1/fit/w_725,h_700,q_70,strp/grace_stretches_by_piratestann_dgesdxe-375w-2x.jpg?token=eyJ0eXAiOiJKV1QiLCJhbGciOiJIUzI1NiJ9.eyJzdWIiOiJ1cm46YXBwOjdlMGQxODg5...
by TheOldPirate
4 days ago
Forum: TUG Talk
Topic: No-sex TUGs between Adults
Replies: 15
Views: 1128

Re: No-sex TUGs between Adults

I recommend you check out my posts here. Grace routinely gets tied up for the fun of it, and many of our evenings involve her being bound & gagged while we watch a movie or streaming program. She struggles and we roleplay, but sex isn't necessarily the goal.
by TheOldPirate
5 days ago
Forum: True Stories for Adults
Topic: First time in a straitjacket (M/F)
Replies: 1
Views: 586

First time in a straitjacket (M/F)

Grace slid her hands and arms into the straitjacket, it's heavy canvas rough against her skin. She instinctively expected her hands to pop out at the end of the sleeves then remembered, oh right, this doesn't work that way. She hadn't considered straitjackets for most of her life, other than wanting...
by TheOldPirate
5 days ago
Forum: True Stories for Adults
Topic: Unsettling Real Bondage Hookup (M/M)
Replies: 15
Views: 5563

Re: Unsettling Real Bondage Hookup (M/M)

Sounds to me as if you dodged a bullet there. Arguably you should have vetted him better and had a clearer discussion of what you were both looking for from the scene. As it was, he did pretty much what he wanted and you hoped you'd enjoy it. That's a good way to get into trouble. It's my experience...
by TheOldPirate
6 days ago
Forum: TUG Talk
Topic: What games, tricks, or excuses have you used to have someone allow you to tie them up?
Replies: 6
Views: 703

Re: What games, tricks, or excuses have you used to have someone allow you to tie them up?

Doesn't sound entirely consensual to have to come up with tricks or excuses to allow someone to tie them up.
by TheOldPirate
6 days ago
Forum: True Stories for Adults
Topic: Straitjacketed and fucked (M/f)
Replies: 7
Views: 2564

Re: Straitjacketed and fucked (M/f)

Flyingvulture wrote: 6 days ago To me, when the writer(s) expresses their thoughts and feelings during the process gives me a lot of immersion and empathy towards them.
That's a very good point. Perhaps I'll have her read it and ask about her feelings so I can add that perspective.
by TheOldPirate
1 week ago
Forum: TUG Talk
Topic: Dom, switch or sub?
Replies: 348
Views: 622798

Re: Dom, switch or sub?

I find it interesting that this group appears to be front-loaded with malesubs and male-switches, but has very few female-switches and essentially no femdoms.

Seems to me that there should be a major outreach to bring more femdoms and fem-switches to the group.
by TheOldPirate
1 week ago
Forum: TUG Polls
Topic: Number of TUG partners
Replies: 10
Views: 2743

Re: Number of TUG partners

Back when I was active in our local scene, gals would literally line up to get tied if I was doing a presentation.
by TheOldPirate
1 week ago
Forum: TUG Polls
Topic: Who was the first person you tied up and gagged?
Replies: 33
Views: 70571

Re: Who was the first person you tied up and gagged?

I dated a gal when I was 19 (back in the '80s) who was all about letting me tie her up. I didn't have a clue what I was doing, but we did have quite a bit of fun for the 18 months we were together.
by TheOldPirate
1 week ago
Forum: TUG Talk
Topic: Thoughts on bare feet
Replies: 26
Views: 3860

Re: Thoughts on bare feet

My girls must always be barefoot, regardless of the weather. I especially love a barefoot (and toe-tied) gal hopping outdoors.
by TheOldPirate
1 week ago
Forum: TUG Talk
Topic: Novels/Books that have TUGs or Bondage elements
Replies: 39
Views: 21025

Re: Novels/Books that have TUGs or Bondage elements

Let's Go Play at the Adams' by Mendal W. Johnson A late-teens female babysitter is hired to watch some kids for a week while the parents are away. Said kids engage in the trope of tying up the babysitter so they can do whatever they want. Except it's portrayed relatively realistically, and isn't a c...
by TheOldPirate
1 week ago
Forum: TUG Talk
Topic: Close to Home
Replies: 10
Views: 3461

Re: Close to Home

I've been active in the scene since 2007. Found myself single, without a kinky partner, four times. None lasted more than six months. Once you become active in your local scene, finding partners is pretty easy. Finding long-term partners can be trickier, especially as you get older (I'm 58, my girl ...
by TheOldPirate
1 week ago
Forum: TUG Talk
Topic: Have you ever been B & G'd completly against your will?
Replies: 23
Views: 18517

Re: Have you ever been B & G'd completly against your will?

I dated a gal who was bound non-consensually when she was in middle school. Or maybe it was consensual? At her age then, who knows? A couple of boys tied her to a swingset pole in the playground using jump ropes. She indicated they used quite a few and the bondage was very secure; not that she wante...
by TheOldPirate
1 week ago
Forum: TUG Talk
Topic: Bondage media that actually made you feel uncomfortable.
Replies: 50
Views: 31298

Re: Bondage media that actually made you feel uncomfortable.

Bondage in mainstream media tends to make me uncomfortable, especially when watching with my girl (particularly if she's strapped into her straitjacket). Simply put, there's generally an overtone that the poor damsel could be raped (or she knows she's going to be raped) and I simply don't find that ...
by TheOldPirate
1 week ago
Forum: TUG Talk
Topic: Anybody Here Does Also Sleep Tied Up? (T)
Replies: 24
Views: 5874

Re: Anybody Here Does Also Sleep Tied Up? (T)

Grace routinely falls asleep while wearing her straitjacket and we're cuddling on the couch. She loves to do this, tied or untied. If the latter, after a half hour I send her to bed. But if she's tied she can stay that way as long as she wants. I believe the record is six hours (I managed to watch t...
by TheOldPirate
1 week ago
Forum: TUG Talk
Topic: Put to sleep for real?
Replies: 7
Views: 1266

Re: Put to sleep for real?

Chloroform is very dangerous stuff. Indeed, rendering someone unconscious for real is dangerous across the board, with no method without serious, life-threatening risks. I recommend leaving this part as a roleplay.
by TheOldPirate
1 week ago
Forum: TUG Talk
Topic: Favourite Unfulfilled Fantasy
Replies: 35
Views: 9533

Re: Favourite Unfulfilled Fantasy

Maledom here, so my fantasies involve tying someone else up; I'm cis-het so it'll normally be a gal. I've been active in the scene since 2007 and have managed to pretty much indulge every fantasy I've ever considered, and a few I haven't. While the vast majority have been extremely satisfying, a few...
by TheOldPirate
1 week ago
Forum: True Stories for Adults
Topic: Straitjacketed and fucked (M/f)
Replies: 7
Views: 2564

Re: Straitjacketed and fucked (M/f)

Thanks, and a "first time" story is indeed a good idea.