Dom, switch or sub?
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I guess....sub?
I love the idea of being captured, tied and gagged by a hot guy, and really don't have any interest in tying up anyone. But I dunno if sub is right, as I'm not into pain or anything like that.
I love the idea of being captured, tied and gagged by a hot guy, and really don't have any interest in tying up anyone. But I dunno if sub is right, as I'm not into pain or anything like that.
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You don’t have to be into pain to be a sub. I like being tied up for relaxation purposes with no pain, and I consider myself to be a sub. Now that I think about it maybe the term Rope Bottom/Bunny is a better way to phrase it.CapturedKim wrote: ↑4 years ago I guess....sub?
I love the idea of being captured, tied and gagged by a hot guy, and really don't have any interest in tying up anyone. But I dunno if sub is right, as I'm not into pain or anything like that.
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"Rope Bunny"....I love that, ha ha!RotiferTape wrote: ↑4 years agoYou don’t have to be into pain to be a sub. I like being tied up for relaxation purposes with no pain, and I consider myself to be a sub. Now that I think about it maybe the term Rope Bottom/Bunny is a better way to phrase it.CapturedKim wrote: ↑4 years ago I guess....sub?
I love the idea of being captured, tied and gagged by a hot guy, and really don't have any interest in tying up anyone. But I dunno if sub is right, as I'm not into pain or anything like that.
That's a very nice phrase!RotiferTape wrote: ↑4 years agoYou don’t have to be into pain to be a sub. I like being tied up for relaxation purposes with no pain, and I consider myself to be a sub. Now that I think about it maybe the term Rope Bottom/Bunny is a better way to phrase it.CapturedKim wrote: ↑4 years ago I guess....sub?
I love the idea of being captured, tied and gagged by a hot guy, and really don't have any interest in tying up anyone. But I dunno if sub is right, as I'm not into pain or anything like that.
Lol I can’t believe I never thought of it that way but it describes me perfectly too .RotiferTape wrote: ↑4 years agoYou don’t have to be into pain to be a sub. I like being tied up for relaxation purposes with no pain, and I consider myself to be a sub. Now that I think about it maybe the term Rope Bottom/Bunny is a better way to phrase it.CapturedKim wrote: ↑4 years ago I guess....sub?
I love the idea of being captured, tied and gagged by a hot guy, and really don't have any interest in tying up anyone. But I dunno if sub is right, as I'm not into pain or anything like that.
shoutout to the other bunnies I suppose
100% sub, I love being tied up, gagged and the idea of being held captive/kidnapped. I'm a rope bunny but also a pup so hense the name Ropepup :p
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A switch, I appreciate the feeling of being gagged, or gagging others
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I mostly want to do the tying up, but I sometimes allow my female partner to bind me and have her wicked way with me.
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Rope Bunny seems popular with those who practice shibari or Japanese bondage.RotiferTape wrote: ↑4 years agoYou don’t have to be into pain to be a sub. I like being tied up for relaxation purposes with no pain, and I consider myself to be a sub. Now that I think about it maybe the term Rope Bottom/Bunny is a better way to phrase it.CapturedKim wrote: ↑4 years ago I guess....sub?
I love the idea of being captured, tied and gagged by a hot guy, and really don't have any interest in tying up anyone. But I dunno if sub is right, as I'm not into pain or anything like that.
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I'd say Male switch even though never really been tied up by another or tied others ( mainly done some self bondage ), though when I RP tugs, I mostly like to be on the submissive side as I love the thought of being Tied up and humiliated but I can occasionally also be a dom as well
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I occasionally switch depending on situations for example when I was 16 I tied up my mum as an anniversary gift for my dad. When he would come home her tied up would surprise him, I also tied up a couple of my girls during our uni days nothing too serious just hands in front taped with masking tape and a single strip gag. I am usually tied by my partners during BDSM play as I usually play the sub with other guys.
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I haven't had much experience either way to know for sure exactly, when I fantasize im usually a dom but most of my limited experience is being bound which I do find relaxing.
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I'm a dom, very much into tying and gagging other guys.
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Too bad you’re across the ocean
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Primarily Dom but definitely want to be the one tied up sometimes. Only play with naturally-born ladies.
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I don't know for sure, as I haven't had much real experience, but I consider myself a switch. I can imagine being on either side... and loving it.
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Oh I see what you mean now. But isnt being Dom like what you said about telling the Sub what to wear, how to look etc. Sort of like controlling, obsessive, etc.
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Yes and no. It really varies from person to person, play partner to play partner. On a base level for this site, it's generally assumed that the dom is the one who perfers to tie, while the sub prefers being tied.
However, depending on what the play partners want out of the scene, doms may be more controlling, obsessive, demanding, keep the sub tied up for longer, etc.
The important thing is that there is agreement between dom and sub - yes, the dom may have more control, but the sub has more power because the dom will respect their wishes.
I hope that helps. If my explanation was overly pedantic or condescending, my apologies.
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I think I’m a switch? Is that right? Honestly I’m not sure what kinda role I am. Personally I just like to watch!
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I’m a total sub
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Hello I am a male sub
Sub. Definitely. I admit I occasionally feel dominant towards other women, but that's very rare.
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I'd like to know who the three female doms are.
They aren't easy to find, i guess...
They aren't easy to find, i guess...
If you're not gagged and blindfolded, then you're not tied up at all!!!
100% sub, Male looking for male doms.
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Mostly dominant but become intrigued by being the one tied up