Always good to see others' fantasies and check that we more or less all dream of the same stuff, with funny parapheliaes for everyone
A little retrospective of mine along the years:
-from 8 to 14: classic boys adventures where you inevitably get tied up by caricatural manly bad guys dwarfing you and lifting you up and carrying you away with just one finger.
-around 14: I projected in the bad guy kidnapping my RL cute friends or sexy boys on TV/movie, big crush on Eddie Furlong in Terminator2.
-14 to 18: still in 'attacker/tier' phase, start playing with the middle section of vics' bodies, pants are pulled down to show the underwear...
-18 to 20smthg: move into the city, the architecture school is in a social/ethnic neighborhood and I get scallies literally under my eyes all the time. Find them soooo sexy and deliciously aggressive and nasty; immediate integration into fantasies and I go back into projecting as a victim. Gangnaps and home invasions where things quickly get sexual...
Kinda stayed stuck in that since then, playfull consensual doesn't even come close to non-consensual, imagining being teased and abused definitly works better on my little soldier than abusing others and that "darker skin against whitey me" angle always spices thing up.
DIRTY CLICHES WARNING HERE, personal podium is: #1: aggressive, frustrated Arabic youths #2: crazy, horny black guys #3: rowdy eastern Europe guys... As you can see, it's a mix of actual social patterns and narrow prejudice.
I do alternate with regressive, tie-only projections into younger/alternative versions of me for easy, relaxing fun and harder ones when in need of stronger stuff... Since my actual, adult sex life has always been consensual, I'm never my actual self in my fantasies; but 'student me' has had a lot of dirty adventures.
don't run ! I'm friendly ...