Stories of Tie Up Games

Hey everyone! I was just curious why so many people like ball gags? I prefer several other gags personally, because a ball gag hurts my jaw, and causes a drooling that im not a fan of.

I was just curious why they are so popular for a lot of people? The look of it or what?

Thanks!

Well I personally like the way they look on a woman and the way they look and feel on me,and I like the drooling personally , maybe is a humiliation thing?

Its possible! I was just curious! I am a much bigger fan of tape gags, cleave gags, and a stuffed mouth gag, but idk, I have just never enjoyed the ball gag!

I think part of it is just how 'iconic' the ball gag has become. Over time, for whatever reason, it has shown up so much in bondage pics/videos that in a way, it has become almost the definition of bdsm gag.

I agree with what others have said. I like the humility of them the fact that they make you drool. The only way to stop drooling is not to speak so you have to make a choice. Make moans and try to speak and risk drooling all over yourself. They do get a bit sore but once you're used to it they're not too bad.

Thanks for the responses guys! Maybe its worth another shot trying it out again

Ball gag is definitely something you go for aesthetic, not for functionality. It's both hard on your jaw (though you can circumvent this with soft ones) and bad at actually muffling noise.

Personally, I don't care much about ball gags but they really suit some guys, especially if they have facial hair.

Speaking as a submissive male...

I've always loved ball gags. They are a very quick way to humiliate and silence meaningful talk. I for the most part love the drooling associated but have become self conscious as my partner doesn't find it as attractive.

Svpmissive wrote: ↑3 years ago Speaking as a submissive male...

I've always loved ball gags. They are a very quick way to humiliate and silence meaningful talk. I for the most part love the drooling associated but have become self conscious as my partner doesn't find it as attractive.

If it didnt cause so much drool, id probably enjoy them more. I enjoy the feeling of moaning into a gag or doing gag talk, the ball gags just make you drool when you do that.

Yeah, it's largely an aesthetic thing. They're basically iconic at this point.

I do own one, but I don't use it much. It's an item I'll probably whip out if I ever try to get a partner into bondage.

DeeperThanRed wrote: ↑3 years ago Ball gag is definitely something you go for aesthetic, not for functionality. It's both hard on your jaw (though you can circumvent this with soft ones) and bad at actually muffling noise.

I recently bought a small pillow gag. I’m yet to use it in a proper tie up but me and my partner have tried it on and whilst your jaw still aches, your at least able to chew on the pillow a bit more. Also, the pillow fills out your mouth and does a lot better at muffling you. Plus you still get the aesthetic look of a normal ball gag.

I got to wear a ball gag for the first time yesterday. It was awesome! Even if like all the drool got everywhere. It was locked on which was another thing I loved.

BlueKK wrote: ↑3 years ago I got to wear a ball gag for the first time yesterday. It was awesome! Even if like all the drool got everywhere. It was locked on which was another thing I loved.

Maybe someone should lock it on and throw away the key.

For me, I love the way they look when I or someone else wears one. I have 3, the larger one *really* keeps me quiet and makes me feel like I'm gagged.

Have to agree with the aesthetic thing, but also love that it is uncomfortable and drool inducing. I love wrapping vet wrap around it too to really wedge it in

I love the Harness ball gags. They're near impossible to get off while you're tied up and the drooling is definitely very cute :3

Thanks for the responses everyone! Still havent been ball gagged again since posting this, so I couldnt tell you if I have changed my mind or not. Alot of people seem to love them though!

Tbh, I never really liked the look of ball gags plus they look very uncomfortable also. Always preferred handkerchief/cloth gags tied around several times.

People actually like drooling - as others confirm.

I personally like the ball gag, but like you I hate drooling. So my personal favourite is a stuffed ball gag You simply stuff in a handkerchief or two. I have only ever tried homemade ones, so I just tie a ball in a knotted cloth, love them. I think I like both the looks of it as well as the feeling of not being able to close the mouth. Apart from them being much effective than a simple cleavegag for what a gag is supposed to do.

About hurting the jaw, did you try out different sizes?

I like the look of ball gags, with the exception of ones where the ball is very large. They look a bit uncomfortable, but I've been tempted to buy one just to try it out. Cloth and tape gags are still my favorite by far.

They're safer - you're less likely to choke on a ball gag?

I do find them very pleasing and fun to wear myself. Even when not tied up, i've had my ball gag on and not just for a few minutes! During lockdown, i've gone to the local shop with my ballgag under a mask and no one has noticed!

Gemma

I do love the humiliating feeling of the ballgag which forces my mouth to stay open, and the fact that I can try biting it while tormented.
Of course, the humiliating dimension can also be achieved with a pair of dirty socks...
Has anyone ever had a positive experience using a panelgag?

Never tried a panel gag and certainly will NEVER try dirty socks!

What is the longest time people have had their ballgags in?

Gemma

For me it is 3 hours. But after that, my jaw start hurting haha. It was a small ballgagg, cause I think a bigger one I could not make it that much time. And I was getting thursty, cause I'm a drooler haha.

My job enables me to homework, and like so many I have been doing that over the past 18 months. It helps with childcare, having a 2 year old son. I am also studying towards a Masters and have 1 day week on release from my job to do uni work. On this day (usually Tuesday), Gareth's or my parents have Isaac for the day so he's getting used to people and not being "clingy" (as I as at that age), and enabling me to do uni work. I am not tied up, but i will often put my ball gag in and i've had it in for about 3 hours. It is of course very wet when I take it out and it needs washing straight away in soapy water and rinsing in clear water to keep it safe.

Gemma