Re: What does your Dom wear?
Posted: Sun Nov 19, 2023 11:42 pm
Sorry to necro post on this one, but I find this question fascinating @Lucky Lottie.
My dom is my wife. She wears whatever she wears when I'm tied up (mostly self-ties, with her adding the finishing touches to make it inescapable without her). When she asks me what I'd like to see her wear, I always answer "whatever makes you most comfortable." However, since I've commented several times on how good she looks in stockings and tights, that's what she'll change into, unless already wearing that.
For me, confidence and comfort in one's clothes go hand-in-hand. Constantly being distracted by one's own clothes, adjusting them, however otherwise sexy on the person (be it on a male or female identifying person or even agendered) also makes them appear non-confident. So even do I do have a fetish for skin-tight outfits on doms and subs alike, the most important aspect for me is the comfort which helps or enhances the confidence of the dom. Conversely, a bit of discomfort (or a lot) of the sub is also pleasing.
My dom is my wife. She wears whatever she wears when I'm tied up (mostly self-ties, with her adding the finishing touches to make it inescapable without her). When she asks me what I'd like to see her wear, I always answer "whatever makes you most comfortable." However, since I've commented several times on how good she looks in stockings and tights, that's what she'll change into, unless already wearing that.
For me, confidence and comfort in one's clothes go hand-in-hand. Constantly being distracted by one's own clothes, adjusting them, however otherwise sexy on the person (be it on a male or female identifying person or even agendered) also makes them appear non-confident. So even do I do have a fetish for skin-tight outfits on doms and subs alike, the most important aspect for me is the comfort which helps or enhances the confidence of the dom. Conversely, a bit of discomfort (or a lot) of the sub is also pleasing.